Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Why I love...

Why do people love anybody at all? Why put yourself through that heartache? What satisfaction can come from pain? Well i finally figured it out how and why the feeling of love exist. The feeling of love is used in vein and nobody really knows what it really means until you have a moment in time...Because ironically everybody says that they have never witnessed love a first site, but every genuine feeling of love is a result of love at first sight. No matter if it be their attitude, walk, talk, or their physical appearance. There is some concept of love at first sight.
Seeing that one you know will be it and never thinking of anything else is a big characteristic of falling in love. Not being able to sleep when they are away or always wishing they were continuously with you. There are many characteristics of love but most people are afraid of the word and the feeling, because they associate pain and heartache with love. However that is not or never will be love; those relationships never had a feeling of love at first sight. It was just a feeling of lust and convenience, which is what people always get confused with. Being in love is a blessing that everybody takes for granite. saying i love you to your loved one after a week or two is not a bad thing but society says its not normal. But when you experience that true never-ending love at first sight you cant help but feel that way. Society in my opinion is a bunch of forced love because you can not look for love, love has to come to you and that tis something people need to learn.
I met my final love in life that when i saw her all i could think was thats the one. (Love at First Sight) Nothing took my attention off of her all night not even a game of bp. She kept me intrigued the whole night, but she seemed uninterested in me. So i took it upon myself to not stop until i had her as my official girl and nothing could stand in my way. the feeling of love came over my body and has yet to leave and it never will. my life has tremendously changed in the positive way because of this girl. my stress level is down and so are my bad days. My friend used to tell me that my attitude predicted the weather and it seems to me that there have not been many ucky nasty days outside. And rarely any thunderstorms so my life and attitude has changed, and she gave me the feeling all of those people sing about in the romantic love songs. I can not express it and thats what love is- an unexplainable feeling of joy and a new sense of happiness.
I do not understand how with the feeling of love around the world why people are so selfish and filled with hatred. Love is about a relationship not just you or your feelings. love is about that other person beside you through the good and bad times and their feelings. Ask them how they feel and if everything is ok. Don't be afraid to love or be loved because let me tell you that love is the most powerful feeling and emotion. And to contrary belief Love concours hate at all times. No matter how much you hate that person or thing your loved one makes you happy and forget about that thing you hate.
I love my girl and i am glad that God blessed me with his best angel and that he put her down here just for me. And i know that nobody is perfect but she is perfect for me. Because love is loving them for their faults and accepting their perfections. I have got the best thing that has ever came into my life and i am never letting her go....I LOVE YOU BABY you already know...But i just want to make sure you do.
So my final statements are don't be afraid of love or loving somebody. And do you feel loved? Do you want love? have you ever felt that unexplainable emotion? If not wait for it and do not take it upon yourself to find it. Because as the late Teddy Pendergrass said "it feels so good good good when your loving somebody and that somebody love you back." You can not rush perfection and thank god that i didn't because he landed my perfect woman right next to me right now.

-JS Valentine

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